Valentine's Day Ideas

According to historical accounts, Charles, the Duke of Orleans, sent the first Valentine card to his wife in 1415. He was imprisoned in the Tower of London at the time. The custom of giving notes of handwritten affections has grown into a celebration of love that includes cards, jewelry, candy and more. This holiday gives all of us the opportunity to renew our commitment to love.

When was the last time you gave him a back rub? Or, made dinner for her? These special things that we do for one another are what create long lasting memories. After the candy is gone, the roses have wilted and the jewelry is put away, the evening that you planned for each other will have a lasting impact on your relationship. Setting the ambiance is important. Soft music and lighting, a nice dinner and time to talk will definitely rejuvenate your feelings.

Get in the mood with a bath or shower for two. Just a few little things will help to create just the right tone. First, change the light bulbs. Try a softer light in a shade of pink. Next, add that great aromatherapy bubble bath that you never use to the water. Then, light some candles. The candles will work wonders. An Apple Pear and Ylang Ylang candle will produce a soft sweet and erotic aroma. Together, they can create euphoric and erotic moods by releasing endorphins in the brain. Lavender Oil, for romance and healing, is used to bring one's true love closer. The flower scent creates a feeling of deep calm, while soothing the nervous system and stimulating the immune system.

After the bath, have the bedroom ready for a wonderful evening. A few suggestions would include a wine or champagne with your best glasses, some rose petals strewn across the bed and soft music. The candle light will be enough; there is no need for additional lighting. A Patchouli and Ylang Ylang candle will produce a relaxing, sensual and richly fragrant aroma. It also promotes a sense of peace and creates a truly aphrodisiac atmosphere. It can be relaxing or energetic, depending on the need. Later on in the evening, light a candle that is Vanilla and Ylang Ylang for a warm, cozy aroma. This unique blend helps to soothe and calm the body.

Are you dining at home or planning an evening out? Whatever the case may be, a candle lit dinner is romantic. If you are dining out, try to reserve a table that allows for some privacy. You might also want to make sure that the restaurant dims the lights and has candles on every table. If you are planning a dinner for at home, select a menu that will allow you to prepare everything ahead of time. Then, choose your best dishes, silverware and crystal. This is one night that you don’t want to be less than perfect. Add some soft music, candle light and you have an evening that both of you will remember.

For dinner, place several tapers on the dining room table. Surround the base of the decorative candle holders with red rose petals. Then, have a variety of shades of red votives and pillars lit throughout the house, from the dining room all the way to the bedroom. You may also want to have aromatherapy oils for the after dinner body massages that you give one another. Check the oils when you purchase them to make sure that they are for the skin. Some of the oils can be added to your lotion for easy application. You might want to try the sensual aroma blend of Orange, Patchouli and Lavender to begin your evening of passion.

The use of Feng Shui love and relationship items will enhance the setting. A pair of classic, correct Mandarin Ducks for your relationship corner will bring you strength of devotion and romantic bliss. The Marriage and Union Coins are meant for the love or relationship corner. This double hanging luck-coin represents the perfect blending of partners. It brings good fortune to marriage and relationships, and is a powerful blessing for any relationship issues. By using the Feng Shui candles, you can activate the relationship that you are looking for. Lighting a Feng Shui candle that represents the Fire Element will promote passion.

Romantic getaways are a wonderful way to escape from the daily routine. You don’t have to go far nor do you have to spend a lot of money. Just the idea of planning something special for the two of you is what is important. When packing, don’t forget the aromatherapy soaps, bubble bath, oils and candles. You can create a romantic holiday wherever you are going with these few items!

Are you planning a Valentine’s Day wedding? What a wonderful way to say ‘I love you!’ Candles for your wedding day are a must. They can be used for the ceremony, the reception as well as for gifts for the attendants. A keepsake candle with your names and date, surrounded by the bride’s bouquet, is a perfect centerpiece for the bride and groom’s table. Create a Valentine’s Day theme for the reception by using heart-shaped candles. The soft light of candles on every table will produce the perfect affect for your reception.

The history of the celebration of Valentine’s Day on an international level is very interesting. The modern day version of Valentine’s Day seems to have begun in France and England. On the Eve of Valentine’s Day, young people would gather and pick names. They would become a valentine to whose ever name they chose. In Italy, it is traditional to become engaged on Valentine’s Day.

However you celebrate, honoring your love for one another by setting aside a special time is a wonderful tradition. With a few well-placed candles, some soft music and quiet time together, the day will be one that will help you to remember what is important!